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Clothing to Empower Your Authentic Self Is Here

January 23, 2023

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blonde girl in a black crew neck that says, "it's not you, it's my needs" and a black baseball cap that says "98% sober" because she is sober curious

Omgggg I’m so excited to announce Living Adventure‘s very first merch drop!!

This year Victoria and I knew it was time to take Living Adventures offline with some real-world aspects. The first of that being… clothing!

We have longed dreamed of a comfy and cozy line of clothes and accessories that empower you to embrace your most authentic self unapologetically and now it’s finally here. A physical reminder that your needs matter, you’re allowed to set boundaries, and there’s nothing wrong with being exactly who you are!

1. It’s Not You It’s My Needs (Say No) Crewneck

blonde girl in a black crewneck that says "it's not you, it's my needs"
blonde girl with green eyes in black crewneck with "say no" on the sleeve

This is one of my absolute favorite pieces we are releasing this month. Just this morning I had people asking me for discounts on services and extensions on things and I said NO. Because I know it’s not about them, it’s about my needs and my needs deserve to be met.

Every time you’re wearing this crewneck, you’ll have your right-handed permission slip to say no anytime it feels right, and especially when it feels scary.

2. Socially Selectively Hoodie

blonde girl with glasses in a blue hoodie that says "socially selective"
two blonde girls hiking in the winter with hoodies that say "selectively social"

Victoria came up with this term nearly a year ago and I’ve been obsessed with it ever since! I’ve spoken to so many people in my community over the past few months who say they are really introverted unless they are around the right people – introducing Selectively Social!

Even me, someone who most people consider an extrovert, my battery runs out when I’m around the wrong people. Let this hoodie serve as your permission slip to choose who you surround yourself with and what you spend your time doing to best support your needs.

Fun fact: These bad boys were warm enough for the 7 mile hike in 30 degree weather that we went on this weekend!

3. 98% Sober Hat

blonde girl in black baseball cap that says "98% sober"

Another gem of a saying – 98% sober. Last year Victoria and I started our sober curious journeys. While we realize hangovers and late-night outs aren’t exactly our vibe anymore, we aren’t necessarily ready to give up champagne toasts and passionfruit margaritas. So this one goes out to our 98% sober crew who isn’t down for binge drinking, but won’t say no when their favorite cocktail is on the menu every once in a while.

I hope you love this first collection as much as we do and we can’t wait to keep providing you with more ways to empower yourself!

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P.S. Dog fur not included, we can thank Maxie boy for the little furs all over mine 🤣

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