What if all the answers you're searching for are right inside of you?

March 23, 2022

I made 20k in one week ? I had 8 sales calls on my calendar because the week prior I scheduled 3 hours of pitch power hours… For those three hours, I was in my DMs and my only intention was to talk to my hottest leads and book them onto calls. From those 8 […]

March 23, 2022

I bet you saw the title of today’s blog and thought, “Uhm, isn’t it always time to scale?” This belief was probably one of the biggest mistakes I made in my business in the beginning. I always thought that I had to chase the bigger and better things and it really prevented me from enjoying […]

March 23, 2022

How you write content for your business can make or break your ability to land clients. In this Instagram live replay, I share how you should format your content to make your followers want to hire you. I recently read a book about hostage negotiation in the FBI and some of the FBI’s techniques play […]

March 17, 2022

When you start an online service business or create a new offer, it’s easy to assume that everyone is going to want to buy it. You’ve probably spent a lot of time thinking about this offer, dreaming about it, planning it out, and trying to get everything perfect. I’m sure all you want to do […]

March 17, 2022

Can we get real for a second? Because you’ve been lied to about what a very popular term ✨actually✨ means… What the F does “positioning yourself as an authority” even mean…? I’ve been in this online space for a few years, and there are constant “buzz words” being thrown around all the time that sound […]

March 17, 2022

Social media is a powerful tool in any content marketing strategy. While some new freelancers and service providers look to sites like UpWork and Fiverr to make their first sales, the most successful coaches, virtual assistant and social media managers know that signing clients through social media is the most powerful way to make a […]

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My Life is a Trainwreck

Why I Stopped Hiring Coaches

I’ve been a little nervous to admit that I’ve been coachless. The online space is rampant with posts screaming things like “invest or you don’t believe in yourself” and “if you don’t invest in others how will anyone invest in you.” It’s kind of bullshit...

My life is a trainwreck and it’s become too fascinating to not share it. You know all those people who say, “speak from your scars, not from your wounds”? To them I say, fuck that. I’m bleeding out and I’m ready to make a spectacle for all to see...

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Ashley Mielke

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Ashley Mielke is a certified life coach, microcelebrity expert, and speaker specializing in connecting women to their intuition, designing burnout-proof businesses, and establishing microcelebrity status among online communities. She is the founder of Ashley Mielke Coaching, LLC, a destination for female entrepreneurs to learn foundational marketing and sales strategies they can pair with their our intuition and processes to create businesses that flourish and grow.

She is the creator of 9TOFREEDOM™, Made for Everything™, and other coaching programs that have served over 1,000 women in their journey to start and scale successful businesses. She is also the co-founder of Living Adventures Retreats, a company dedicated to facilitating connection-driven experiences for women around the world.

Ashley's work in grounded in the belief that we are the experts of our own lives and if we can learn to trust our intuition and develop unique strategies and methods for our own lives, any dream can come true. The Intuitive Diaries and Intuitive Confidential Membership were created to help women begin to tap into their intuition and reconnect to their authenticity so they learn how to do life and business whatever way they want.